Now for the purposes of this discussion I have decided to classify most women in one of two categories. The Bad Bitch or The Homely Hoe. As I stated above Bad Bitch simply sounds better than Bad Girl and Homely Hoe sounds better than Homely Woman, don't trip just vibe with it. This all spawned from a tweet I posted regarding the whole Deion and Pilar Sanders situation. The tweet said "Pilar is a Prime example of what happens when you marry a bad bitch... Thats why you just fuck fine women and settle down with the homely ones that's why its called Settling down. Bad bitches ain't worth shit." Now most people got stuck on my choice of language and laughed it off but if you read between the lines the logic is actually pretty deep. Society awards the Bad Bitch and shuns the Homely Hoe. The ironic part about it however is that in the long run the "Bad Bitch" almost always turns out to be bad for you and the "Homely Hoes" are actually the ones you should take home to mama. Allow me to explain...
A Bad Bitch can't get shit but Haz dick #Hazism
Now the first yet ironically least important factor in determining a Bad Bitch is looks. I know that might seem odd but a Bad Bitch is really a mentality that has more to do with the way a woman views herself than how others view her. Of course the way others view women plays a big part in how they in turn view themselves so looks are a factor, but if twitter and facebook has taught us anything its that you don't have to be attractive to consider yourself "bad." Society rewards attractive people, it's a shallow fact of life. Men tend to value women based off of their looks so the better a woman looks the higher her "value." Things of higher value tend to receive more than those of lesser value. More time, money, praise, recognition, attention, respect, more everything. The problem here is that as the cliche goes, beauty is only skin deep. Most men are usually visually attracted to a female first then tend to adapt to whatever personality comes along with her while most women (not hoes) tend to go for the personality more and then usually accept whatever looks come with the guy. This is the reason you'll see an attractive woman with an ugly man 10 times for every 1 attractive man you see out with an ugly woman. In fact only hatin' men see and express a problem with beautiful women dating ugly dudes, but when you see a man with a woman society feels is below him on the scale (take Tip and Tiny for example) both men and women tend to wonder exactly what the hell went wrong. It's as if its only "right" that a successful man should have the most beautiful woman possible on his arm. Being rich and having an ugly wife almost makes no sense to most people, its like having a fleet of cars at your disposal and taking the bus. If you can have "better" why wouldn't you? The simple fact of the matter is that niggas like Tip are privy to the game I'm about to present. You fuck and have fun with the Bad Bitch but build your home with the Homely Hoe.
The second and most important factor in determining a Bad Bitch is her mental state. The type of head she has on her shouders. You see there are plenty of women that work regular jobs and live life like everybody else that just happen to be bad, and then there are the Bad Bitches. These are the women that understand what I stated earlier about life rewarding the attractive so they focus their lives solely on getting by based off of their looks. They understand that value is placed on appearance so they become obsessed with everything visual and in turn lack any real substance. Everything is about the show. They only dress in designer clothing, carry designer handbags and name drop every chance they get. They're always on the scene and attend all of the trendy clubs and social events and give themselves titles such as sociallite and fashionista even though they probably don't work in fashion. They are considered the typical "It Girl." They date men based off of looks, money, and status. They look up to "women" like Kim Kardashian and are more than entertained by shows like The Bad Girls Club and The Real Housewives of Atlanta. They are almost always "famous" on the latest social networking site or at least aim to be. They rarely work a real job and end up doing something that caters to their lifestyle such as modeling, event hosting, promotional work or even stripping since they stay in the clubs anyway. They truly believe they deserve everything they desire simply because of the way they look. Be it God or Man made. They are the least in touch with reality because unfortunately they are allowed to live in their own worlds. From birth many of them have been sheltered from the "Real World" so one really can't place all the blame solely on them. Every man they come in contact with offers them the world if their looks are good enough because the high value men place on them make them go all out in an attempt to get these women. In the end they are still human. They are women, they have feelings and emotions like everybody else. They seek love, affection, and all other forms of human interaction but the emphasis is usually always on fun. Less work more fun. They truly are fun girls, but unfortunately there is a time and place for everything. They long to be a successful man's trophy wife but by the time they land one (if they land one) they have no clue how to be a wife to begin with.
Now on the other end of the spectrum you have what I call the Homely Hoe's. Now I admit this title really isn't as fair or accurate as the Bad Bitch one is but as most Homely Hoe's should realize by now, life isn't fair. Looks play a minor part again because as I stated previously this is more about the woman's mentality. Obviously if a woman looks homely then chances are she will be more humble and down to earth. Men won't be throwing themselves at her so she naturally won't have a feeling of superiority like most Bad Bitches do, she'll have to get in where she fits in. Now men ain't shit and most of them fuck any and everything so even a sloppy girl can get gassed up enough to believe she's a Bad Bitch which is an unfortunate phenomenon that appears to be occurring more and more these days. Life won't be as rewarding or easy as it will for an attractive Bad Bitch but her true value will be the same as long as the mentality is the same. A Homely Hoe can be and usually is beautiful, if a man knows how to look. If they are attractive they will have been raised with enough values to understand that looks don't last and should never be used to get ahead. She knows they are merely a gift from God for her future husband. Homely Hoe's work and/or go to school. If they do work as one of the jobs I mentioned earlier then its usually a side hustle while they pursue their real career goals. They expect to work for anything they receive (either because they were raised that way or given no choice) and short of courting (dates) they rarely receive handouts. They date men for who they are and not what they are (make no mistake about it looks play a major part in any relationship so they will date who they are attracted to but they will be attracted to them for different reasons). If they do watch the shows I mentioned earlier it's more so of an escape to ignorant entertainment as opposed to the highlight of their week. They laugh at the women in the shows and when the shows end they return to their normal lives. They know the difference between reality TV and reality. They know how to cook and understand their roles in the house and family as the woman and mother. They usually look forward to having children and don't think about the effects they might have on their bodies (not to say they let their bodies go to waste after having children). They read so they're able to INITIATE and maintain a conversation about a variety of different topics. Talking to them is like opening an encyclopedia where a Bad Bitch would be like opening an US Weekly. When/if they go to the club they are usually low key and dress conservatively as opposed to the Bad Bitch who is probably dressed provocatively and standing on a couch. They typically get overlooked by men because men are visually stimulated and these women tend to dress down which makes them blend in and go unnoticed.
Now as I stated earlier there is a time and a place for everything. I believe that nobody is perfect and everybody serves a purpose. Wise men know to have fun with the Bad Bitches and when they get tired settle down with the Homely Hoe's.You hit VIP and pop bottles with the Bad Bitch but have kids with the Homely Hoe. If your lucky you will find one that could've been a Bad Bitch and in today's world probably even should've taken the easy way out and been one but kept her values and remained grounded. If not then you have to upgrade your game enough to upgrade your Homely Hoe as much as humanly possible. If she lacks fashion sense then take your new queen shopping so you can show her off. Take her big ass to the gym and get on a workout plan together. The problem is that successful men (and men period) desire beautiful women but beautiful women tend to become Bad Bitches. The list of men that have been done in by Bad Bitches is too long to name but the two most recent one's I can think of that are going through it are Kobe Bryant and Deion Sanders. They made the mistake of getting with women that stood out in the club. Women that you look at and expect to be with men of there stature. They should've followed the examples of men like LL Cool J and T.I. Get a woman that will be willing to give you the world because every man on earth isn't already offering it to her. Or better yet a woman that you can offer the world to, because every man that's better off than you isn't already trying to do the same. Life is about balance. Either extreme of the spectrum has it's pro's and con's for different situations just weigh your options and choose wisely. Know that if you get a woman based off looks alone chances are she won't be able to cook at home (rhyme intended). I don't know her from a can of paint but you can just look at Pilar and tell she can't throw down in the kitchen. It's not their fault as I stated earlier. She probably never had to. You get the greatest results on what you spend the most energy and time in. Bad Bitches focus all of their energy on looks which equate to physical attraction which ends in sexual intercourse. In the end all they are really good for is sex. They live shallowly on the surface so they posses no real depth for anything beyond visual and physical gratification. Don't let me change your mind though, what you fuck still don't make me nut. In the end when it all comes down to the type of woman you want to spend the rest of your life with you have to ask yourself, do you want a Bad Bitch or a Homely Hoe? Feel free to follow me @HazTv
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